Sunday, January 29, 2012

You are Beautiful

I was by Eden Cafe the other day and I came by an article entitled, Just What Is Beauty Anyhow? The author started off by saying how twisted the standard of beautiful is by the media. And then he goes on by saying how people thinks they need to change in order to be attain that standard. And he's absolutely right. 

We always scrutinize ourselves and compare ourselves to others. We always complain that we are not this and that while others are.Someone who might've just tumbled into this blog post might think, "Why is this girl saying she doesn't need to change how she looks when she clearly packs on makeup on her face to make her look decent"? Well,  I strongly believe that we don't need to change our appearance in order to please anyone.  If we must change something in our body it must be for our sake and not for anyone else. 

Yes, for me, makeup is an essential whenever I leave the house or even when I'm receiving guests. It's not because I'm not comfortable with my skin and how I look but because makeup enhances how I look. Even with just a minimal amount of makeup my confidence skyrockets and that makes me feel better. I don't put on makeup so people will nod and tell me I'm beautiful. I put makeup on in order to help me feel good about myself. When I was in high school and college my friends used to ask me why I go on diets. They would ask if I was trying to impress someone. No, I want to lose weight because I want to be healthy. That was always my answer. 

Beauty doesn't have any qualifications or measurements. I believe in the inner beauty that a person have. Remember Christina Aguilera's song Beautiful? You are beautiful, in every single way... words can't bring you down. The author of the article wrote a quirky ending to his post, "Look in the mirror today, Look at yourself. I bet you're a good person. I bet you're really attractive. If you don't think so, I bet you my toybox, that someone out there thinks you are." 

A little something before I end my post, Eden Fantasys is having a 25% off sale on lingerie and club wear items. If you need a little me time and a little boosting of your womanly beauty and confidence or trying to spice up your relationship you can check out the sale here (this ends January 31, 2012). They also have Valentine themed lingerie if you're looking for those found here and a Valentine gift central here. A friendly reminder to my readers who are minors, Eden Fantasys is an adult shop so take heed.

Always remember that you are beautiful. Don't compare yourself to others and be envious of them for they have their own beauty too. 

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  1. I like what you post. if I saw a tall girl for me they are so perfect sometimes, I do wish to be tall and long legs, lol.. I have something that they don't have and I thankful that to God...

  2. FIRST, great HEADBOARD FOR YOUR BLOG. YOUR EYES ARE SO BEAUTIFUL (oops didnt know caps lock was active lol). your eyes sparkle with kindness, its so nice. second, reading this post left me feel so happy and relieved there are more and more bloggers that take time empowering the world. you seem like such a genuinely nice girl. happy to have checked out your site. keep up :D

  3. Awww this was such a gorgeous post....! It made me smile :)


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